Monday, October 14, 2013

50 Ways to Love Him


I don't know about you, but one of the things I really strive the most to do is to show Tim how much he means to me. For me, that means packing his lunch and writing on his bag no matter how late it is or how tired I am. It means dropping a note in his lunch, making him dinner (with good presentation of course ;)). This means asking him if I can get him a snack or drink while he's studying for his Bible lesson, and making sweets. Showing our man that we love him is going to be different for each one of us, but I think this list by Lisa Jacobson is a wonderful compilation of ideas. Sometimes we get so distracted by life that we forget to show love and only say it. I don't want to be married for 10 years and look back and realize I stopped showing him love. 

If you're newly married, maybe these ideas will help get you started, and if you've been married for 25 years, maybe these ideas will remind you that your man still needs to be shown how much you adore him.

Check out the list below, and then let me know which one(s) jumps out at you!

The beautiful love in Song of Solomon. Nearly makes me blush. A story of rich, full, tender, and touching love. Very touching. It’s a Biblical kind of marriage and what I want for us. I want to enjoy a deep and passionate love with my husband.

And why not? He's all mine and I'm all his. Just like the Bible says.

For I've found him whom my soul loves (Song of Solomon 3:4).

50 Ways to Love Him

1.     Kiss him on the lips. Every day. For a long time.
2.     Slip a love note into his lunch.
3.     Snuggle into him. Any chance you get.
4.     Dress up. Wear something you feel pretty in.
5.     Wrap your arms around his neck.
6.    Smile at him with all your heart.
7.     Turn up the music and slow down the dance.
8.     Wake him in the morning with a kiss.
9.     Give him a knowing wink from across the way.
10.   Arrange for a sitter. Then go somewhere special.  


11.   Go to bed early. Together.
12.   Listen sympathetically to his day.
13.   Hold hands. Whenever you can.
14.   Write a message on his bathroom mirror.
15.   Laugh at his jokes. No matter how many times you've heard them.
16.   Run your fingers through his hair.
17.   Fix him his favorite foods.
18.   Talk late into the night.
19.   Reach out and touch him. Often.
20.   Send him a text. That would make him smile.


21.   Whisper secrets in his ear.
22.   Enjoy his company. Just 'cause you like him.
23.   Go for a long walk. Arm in arm.
24.   Plan special surprises for him.
25.   Look for little ways to delight him.
26.   Let him know how much you missed him while he was gone.
27.   Seek to be together any time you can.
28.   Greet him with an adoring smile.
29.   Offer him a back rub.
30.   Leave no doubt of your devotion.


31.   Tell him about the attraction. You feel for him.
32.   Let your fingers do the talking.
33.   Prepare a picnic. Then head over to the park.
34.   Cuddle up on the couch and watch an old movie.
35.   Turn the lights down low.
36.   Sneak away to a nearby cafe.
37.   Walk outside on a clear night. And stare at the stars together.
38.   Light up when he enters the room.
39.   Brush your lips against his forehead.
40.   Bake cookies and deliver them to his work. Personally, if possible.


41.   Speak in that sweet tone. Saved just for him.
42.   Chase the kids off his lap. To make room for you.
43.   Call him up. Just to say, I love you.
44.   Sing him a love song.
45.   Sit on the porch. And watch the world go by.
46.   Lay your head on his strong shoulders.
47.   Thank God for him. Every day.
48.   Light a small fire. Deep in his heart.
49.   Look lovingly into his eyes.
50.   Fall asleep in his arms. Whenever possible.


Of course, this is only a start. You've probably got lots more ideas to add to this list!

But now to go and find that Man of mine - him whom my soul lovesAnd I think I'll begin with the first one listed.... :)

In His grace,

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